So we have met with Mr Loh on Monday 16th June. He has explained to us in detail on our "si sun but zi". Basically it's all good between us. But it's something about 2 goat cannot get married or even have baby next year (cow). I can't really remember why. Then our "but zi" has no "gold" and "water" so we must get married only at year end, to get the "gold" and "water" from the universe ... uh ... not quite understand but I guess it's something to do with $$$ and wealth .. so ah ... want to believe or not? Hehe ;)
So the next step is to search for restaurant or hotel with the dates given by Mr Loh. We have decided to go for 2008 because 2010 is too far away. And most of my friends know my goal -> must get married before I turn 30. (pai seh ..)
Darling and his parents went to see Holiday Villa today. They like the place a lot and have made the booking. Problem with this place is it can only hold 30 or max 35 tables. I think we need much more than that ... but what to do we have to work around this number and cut short our guest list .. to those friends who we can't invite .. I am sorry and I hope you understand .. my parents took most of the tables you see.
Oh by the way the date is 22 Dec 2008 :) I hope all my chi muis can make it for the whole day, and all my guest can make it (and not coming too late) on that Monday night.
Next is to discuss the details among our parents.
Frankly this thing gives me quite a bit of stress and also issues. I have never been thru this (obviously) so I don't know how to handle this. I feel geram and impatient on a lot of things. Things are not going my way. I guess we have to give in when we can and to insist when we feel we should. And now I finally understand. Getting married is not about us. It's about us AND our family.
I prayed for strength from God to guide me and lead me to go through this. I don't want to feel geram at all time when I can't get things to go my way. And I don't want to look "chan" coz I am stress. BUT, I do want to look slimmer with all the stress. LOL ~~
- by her
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1st crash,
YiLi getting married this year?! my mind hasn't turn back to real!
2nd crash,
All the story in English, yoh! mind stuck with my poor English.
3rd crash,
I can even forgot to GONG HEi my best ji mui in 1st step when she told me she married!
ahaha.. super stupid.. i was wondering what's the "m.a.r.r.i.e.d" means! hahaa..
10*10 is bluring.. after this blog, than is clearing mind now..
okie, no need to ask me free for you or not, because if my turn, that's no excuse for you to not attend on my BIG day, so you think what will I do now for you?
I know you sure excited to countdowning your BIG DAY!
But I have to say, forgive me for not accompany you to go thru all this progress, as you know I also busying on my DREAM HOUSE maa..
what's a wonderful year 2008, we all have different achievement in life!
ALL THE BEST my dear ji mui, i'm really happy to see your dream comes true, that's get married before your 30's! ahah..
sorry, I failed to make it! shame shame..
with love,
10*10
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