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Something happened recently and it's making me very confused, very sad, and very lost. I keep telling myself it's over and they can no longer harm me but I am still feeling scared and miserable. I hope it's only for today, and tomorrow will be a better day.

I need to let go of the feeling, learn the lesson from the incident and then do the things I should be doing in the future.

God please help me to get over this.

First completed job

Today I went to check out my apartment. The grille was installed on Monday but I was sick so I wasn't there to jaga. My PIL helped us and took care of it.

This is our main door grille.

grille next door vs my grille .. hehe

I love this grille. Initially darling and my PIL didn't like it and they actually selected 2 other design. But I told them I really like this and I want this. I am really grateful that they went ahead with this because of their love to me. Thanks to my PIL!!! (and they paid for this) Thank you!!!

:-)

Easter

I went for Calvary church easter musical presentation at Bukit Jalil yesterday. Before the musical start I helped out to conduct a simple survey to find out how effective is the publicity work. The survey is to be conducted with the visitors to see how they get to know the event. Therefore when we meet someone, the first question we ask is "are you a Calvarite?"

The survey went well and people are generally friendly. Then there is this group of African I asked the guy "Hi are you a Calvarite?" He said yes then I said thank you. He then came and approach me again and ask me "Is there other event going on here?" I said "Er .. I don't think so" He then said with a very sacarstic look "Then why you ask if I am a Calvarite?????" I feel so funny. I don't know why he is so offended at my question. I exlained to him we are looking for visitors to conduct survey and stuff then he finally "ohhhhhhhh".

Don't jump into conclusion. Understand what people are trying to do first!!!!

开 工 大 吉

Finally! Finally the water leaking problem is fixed. So we have paid the deposit to the developer and we can 开 工 next Monday. Yay!

To ask or not to ask?

Sometimes, when a friend ask a question, its because they are concern. Not because they are kay poh and waiting for a show to happened .. I know that the person is not in a good mood, perhaps its a very bad timing to ask that question. However, friends ask because they concerned.

I am feeling so mistaken. My intention is genuinely good. I just want to know if things are okay. However the good intention was being misinterpreted.

I kept quiet and walked away. Perhaps this is the best way to answer the misinterpretion.

口 无 遮 拦

我 的 确 有 这 个 问 题。 在 很 久 很 久 之 前 有 人 提 醒 过 我， 我 就 开 始 说 话 慢 一 点， 尝 试 想 久 一 点 才 说 出 口。 可 是 日 子 久 了， 我 就 开 始 忘 了。 我 想 很 久 之 前 我 的 老 毛 病 就 已 发 作 了。 今 天 有 人 提 醒 我。 对 不 起， 请 你 原 谅 我， 也 多 谢 你 的 提 醒， 我 会 好 好 地 注 意 以 及 检 讨。

各 位， 若 有 得 罪 之 处， 敬 请 多 多 包 含。

Fat

Bumped into Wei Siang today at Gardens. Obviously he didn't read my blog coz he said I must be very hung fuk coz I put on lots of weight. And he asked me if I am pregnant.

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House

I spent too much attention on my new image and hair cut lately. Forgotten to update on the house .. :P

We have NOT started anything yet. What?? Still haven't start? Yeah here's why:

Water coming in from the window at master bed room during heavy rain

Water coming in from window at living room

Have reported the problem to the developer last week and they are still fixing it. Grille is ready to be installed but we need to fix this problem first. Have been calling the contractor 3 times a week .. hopefully can kau tim in this week ..

Hair do 3

I cut my hair again!!! I didn't come here to cut it but once Celine see my hair she asked how come my hair is growing so fast .. :S Oh well, it's a bit out of shape d and difficult to style. So she cut it.

And I am sitting here now to dye my hair. The image class teacher did give us a few colours that we can choose from for our hair. Celine recommended golden blonde and copper. We chose copper in the end, hoping that it will make me look fairer and brighter. Oh well .. let's see ..

As I mentioned, I can go online here. And they provide coffee too. And ... Celine brought me some yummy biscuit!! Wah .. nice. Then ... I asked them .. "do I ah .. have to pay for the coffee ah??" Then she laughed and said no no not charging. *phew* (hair do charges is high enough to cover all cost ... :P)

Okay, let me finish my hair do, and I will post the pic. But, I think it looks quite the same with before :P

Here it is.